The Tricks of Shame and Hope

This is part two of For Men* Who Desperately Need Autonomy. (You’ll want to read that first.) My regular readers will know that I give my posts to a panel of mostly-male early readers before they go public. One of these early readers asked me to add a section flippantly called How You Can Put This […]

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On Gaslighting

I keep having the same conversation over and over. That thing where someone undermines your perception of reality, and says you’re crazy, or denies that something is happening that is in fact happening? When people we love and trust do that to us? It really messes with our minds. Over time, or when it is about important […]

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